S O M E D A Y . . .

someday

Someday, for sure; they will know your worth. They will know what they had, when they had you. They will be able to connect the dots, they could never figure out in spite of your persistent efforts. They will then be able to appreciate your love and will long for that shower of affection.

But you’ll be long gone from their lives then. You’d have forgiven them, forgotten how it felt like being shattered and feeling inadequate.

They might not tell you. And it’s okay. Not everything needs to be communicated, especially one’s embarrassments and mistakes are toughest to admit. They might tell you, someday; when you’ve even lost track of that time and pain. They might even carry that feeling to their grave and never ever tell you.

My dear, it isn’t worth your time to wish or guess whether or not they will realize. Realization at times is slow, painfully slow and sometimes in a paradigm moment. Time is powerful. When they realize it someday, they will see how you gave your best and beyond and how amazingly you treated and trusted them. They will learn that the void you left, is irreplaceable.

They’d think of you and your life and wonder if you ever think of them. And, you will sneeze at the moment they recollect the fond memories you shared. They will understand why you did things a certain way and what were your real intentions.

If you ever touched their heart, even the slightest; if you loved them with a true heart, they will figure it out. And it’s not for you. It’s for them. Let time take its time. And you my love, have a pure heart and be kind. Let it go, if you know you’ve done your absolute best and beyond. Trust the plans life has for you and waste not a moment in regret or bad wishes for them. No need to gamble on when or whether or not they will value you. They will, may be silently; may be when you least expect it.

Be kind and loving to your own self and pardon yourself. It’s okay if someone rejects you, fails to appreciate your efforts or breaks your blind trust. It’s their loss, not yours. And this is not a consolation.

They will figure you out, for sure; someday.

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39 thoughts on “S O M E D A Y . . .

  1. You are always welcome, dear friend.
    I am glad that you are inspired by kindness and being compassionate.
    The fact that someone finds life more appealing simply because of us; is already a compensation for kindness.
    I am sure that such acts of love are engraved eternally and never loose efficacy even after we are gone.
    We are God’s image when we represent and manifest His will.
    Blessings and Hugs to you too, dear friend.

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  2. Awesome thoughts you’ve shared. Indeed, there are times in life that we are treated like trash. It could really hurt and we may often be of the opinion that we deserve and apology. Unfortunately, sometimes, those who perpetrated these traits never even realize it. The truth, like you shared, is that it does not really matter whether they realize their mistakes now or whether they let us know about how they felt when we kept our distance. What really matters is that we remain the precious gifts that we are to humanity by being free and happy. Let’s keep going around, doing good; putting smiles on faces and making the world a much better place for both ourselves and all the people that are privileged to cross our path.
    Keep up the good work.

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    • Dear Teecee,
      I’d like to welcome you to Decoding Happyness and thank you for sharing your wisdom with me. Your words “What really matters is that we remain the precious gifts that we are to humanity by being free and happy. Let’s keep going around, doing good; putting smiles on faces and making the world a much better place for both ourselves and all the people that are privileged to cross our path.” touched my heart. I am trying to follow your footsteps of kindness and being compassionate. I hope our good deeds are being noted by God and we get closer to being God’s image. Blessings & Hugs to you, dear friend 🙂

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  3. ‘If you ever touched their heart, even the slightest; if you loved them with a true heart, they will figure it out.’ This is such a profound line and I love it so much, and a line I believe in. Sometimes you wonder if someone is the one for you. If it’s meant to be, two people will be together someway, somehow, and that is a special kind of magic 🙂

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  4. SMiLes.. Himali droppinG bY
    uP i’ll raise yoU a Somewhere
    WiTH yOur SomEdaY iN a New
    Way of LiVing wHeRe standard
    IQ becoMes MaGiC IQ MoRE
    oF LoVinG sMART
    PuRE FearLeSSly
    UnConDiTioNaLLy
    iN a place for all oF uS
    WitH Peace and Quiet
    And Open Doors
    to Nature
    FreeNoW
    but of course
    i Visit Paradise
    today so i have
    NoW the edge
    aLWaYs
    oF LIGht
    NoW iN A
    PaNHandle
    And State oF
    FLoWeRs
    cLeARLY
    SPeLLinG
    MaGiC
    LoVE
    Beach of LiFE
    wHOle.. aLL WiThiN
    NoW GiVE and ShaRE..
    SMiLes.. whether or not it is
    ever returned or even received
    the giving is the receiving alWaYs NoW..:)

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  5. The words and expression, Himali, rang something in my ear and the stark reality of life and ways of the world. Your voice and emotions are uncensored. It brings back so many things in my mind and earth that I want to say but never did to people.

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  6. Hey..Himali.
    keep writing.
    “Let time take its time. ”
    like this one.😊
    वक़्त को थोड़ा वक़्त दो।

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