Rejection hurts – real bad, But why rejection also ROCKS ! Perks of being a “Reject”

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Right from being rejected by cab drivers 20 times a row to drive me to my destination to being rejected in the most coveted job interviews and having my affection smashed into a million pieces by the ones I love and adore – you name it, and I have been through it all. Rejection sucks. Point blank. Real bad. It makes us feel unworthy by the object of our extreme desire and when that happens, trust me – it feels terrible and depressing. When we hear cliches like “You’re such a good friend to me, but I’m seeing some one else” or “They wanted someone more experienced for the job” or “Well, that’s a fantastic idea, but…”; all the hopes you held from the future of your dreams, instantly crash down like the stock market crashing after the dot com bubble.

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Overcoming the Writer’s Block

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I came across a new word today while discussing something with one of my friend’s, and it was “Writer’s Block”. Since this was something related to a writer, I quickly ran through a Google search. Wikipedia gave the following definition:

“A condition primarily associated with writing, in which an author loses the ability to produce new work or experiences a creative slowdown.”

The moment I read the definition, I knew; it spoke my heart. My inner goodness finally found an appropriate jargon to describe the turmoil in my mind !! 😀 I also thanked the person who helped me come across this word and I thought of ways to cure this “ailment”. I tried hard, very hard actually to write on a couple of topics too, but over the weekend I got so busy (another post soon coming up!!) I could write only bits and fragments.

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